We had stopped in Pooler for the Mighty Eighth museum and stayed in a hotel next door. When we went to eat dinner that evening the desk clerk said she liked Spanky's. I had the shrimp and scallops and they were outstanding. Son liked the pizza, took the leftovers back to the hotel for breakfast and said it reheated well.
As far as the girls, it isn't a Hooters atmosphere, just casual. I don't see and issue unless folks dressed for a hot climate bothers you.