As a regular traveler, both on business and with my spouse, I like to help other travelers differentiate between romantic and business get aways. Bon Ami is a large establishment that is best suited to the exec who is in Durban for a week at a time. I would not recommend it to a couple on holiday looking for r&r.
Location, clean rooms, honesty bar (closes at midnight)
Dining area is one large table - you feel like you're at a canteen.
Staff take their morning tea in the common area's.
The resident cats have their food bowels placed all over the property.