My fiance and I are really confused. We want to go to Napa Valley for our honeymoon and we plan on staying in Napa for 4 days. We are from Texas. We love wine and we like hotels, not B&Bs. What is the difference between Sonoma and Napa? Are those two completely different places or are they both part of Napa Valley?? We like city life so we really do not want to stay in an area that is very country but we also want to relax so we need a good mix of both.