This is our very first trip to OBX. We are looking to stay in the 4 x 4 area, North Swan, and are trying to choose from a home at 6.8 miles up the beach "Crosswinds" or between two other homes at around 9 and 10 miles up the beach "Full Speed Ahead" or "Where Sidewalk Ends". Has anyone heard or stayed at any of these homes? And is it better to stay further up the beach or not? We have a Pilot Touring 2011 model and I also don't want to worry about cars on the beach and my young teenage kids. Thanks!