we'll be visiting relatives at their weekend place in southampton for christmas day. we're driving from nj with our 2 sons, 11 and 14 years old, and so would like to find a really good place to stay for 2 or 3 nights--either a "resort-style" place with fitness facilities and/or indoor pool or a really nice b&b. we don't have to be in southampton, just nearby enough to make the christmas-day drive easy, very late at night, probably after much celebrating. several accomodations i've read reviews about seem scarily bad or disappointing. . . any suggestions?