Just found this website which breaks cape may into districts and tells you what restaurants,shopping,hotels,parking,beaches,attractions,etc is in each one. It's www.yellowstone.temple.edu/cape may
It just answered so many questions I had after researching for 2weeks now for my upcoming trip. Go to home page, then click on districts, then tap anywhere on the map that appears and it will tell you the name of the district , then scroll down and see everything in that district.. Cape may is broken into 6 districts. It just made planning my trip so much easier. There is also a tab that lists things to do with kids. Hope this helps people looking for all info on cape may like it did me!!