Heading to Yountville in January for my much anticipated 40th Bday celebration with the hubs, and can't decide where to stay. We have stayed at the NVL but it was over 6 years ago. I remember liking the atmosphere of the property but want to make sure we are picking the best place rather than just going back to what we know. Bardessono looks to modern/cold for our tastes and we definitely don't want a B&B. We have narrowed it down to these 3 choices and would love your input. Thank You!!