My husband and I are getting away from three kids in CT, the dog, a major construction project, and this sleet in order to go to Napa Valley next weekend for our first visit. We'd love some tips about wineries to visit (or avoid), and some good places for dinner. We're staying at Calistoga Ranch (no negative comments please!) and are pinot noir drinkers...(yes, it happened after Sideways, I have no shame). We'd welcome any words of wisdom on how to make this trip a memorable one. We fly into SF on Thursday night and I leave from SF on Monday a.m. Thanks!