I'm a woman in my 50s, about to visit my college-age daughter. I'm no prude and enjoy night life - to a point... I want some quality beach time, not too touristy, but not too quiet either. Good restaurants, a little shopping, some sights to see. Not sure how else to explain it... We'll be in (wherever we decide) 3-4 days. Suggestions? What's the best bet for these two age groups to hang out?