The way our flights work we have to go via either KL or Singapore, and we plan to spend 3 nights in whichever one we choose.
If we go to KL we would stay at Shangri la, if its Singapore it would be mandarin oriental.
Singapore is the slightly more expensive option, but does involve one less flight. We will be doing business class (Malaysian for kl or British airways for Singapore).
In terms of what we would like to do- probably an easyish day to acclimatize followed by 2 days of shopping and sightseeing.
Both seem to be very exciting destinations and we are having a very hard time choosing, any help from fellow TA members would be appreciated. If money and time was no object we would do both, however that is not an option.