A few months ago we started planning our adventure trip (with your help!) Shortly after we had the general idea finalized (including Rio Celeste, canyoneering in Arenal, Pacuare rafting, etc) and several of the parts put into place, I turned up pregnant. Definitely a great thing, but not so compatible with my adventure trip since I'll be closing in on the end of my 2nd trimester by the time we go.
Trip cancellation would mean a huge loss of $--- nonrefundable flights, a few hundred dollars in nonrefundable deposits, etc. Overall more than $1500 down the drain right off the bat. Doc says it is still OK to go (and even cleared me for "light activity" such as class II/III rafting, light hiking, etc as long as all stays well) but obviously this was not the point of the trip, and some tour operators are turning me away, leaving gaps in my itinerary and not much else that I am excited about doing.
Now I have a long, expensive vacation that I am not even excited about. I know it pales in comparison to the obviously good things happening, but it is still bumming me out to think about spending this much money for a trip I am frustrated with. (If I was booking a vacation now, it'd be a cruise or perhaps Europe, nothing strenuous.) Please help!



