My partner and myself (both male in our early 30's) are both staying in Budapest next month.
We are aware that Budapest is home to a variety of gay bars, clubs and venues.
Neither of us is particularly interested in the "gay scene".
We have travelled to various European cities (Amsterdam, parts of Spain etc) and we enjoyed being able to be a couple and showing appropriate affection to each other in public and not having to pretend to "just be mates".
We are not staying in a gay hotel nor do we plan on visiting and gay bars, clubs etc.
But we do wish to make our stay in Budapest a relaxing and romantic trip,