A couple of thoughts here:
#1) Rental cars in Italy make more economic sense for a group of three or four. For you and your husband the economics might work out for train.
#3) Driving in Italy is nothing to be afraid of but it is rarely as laid back as driving around the old familiar neighborhood. For a first trip to Italy, you might find trains less stressful (more of a vacation).
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