I've spent all day on this and really need advice. We're an older (42, 43) year old couple with a two-year old daughter and a car looking to base ourselves somewhere along the beach / coast. We want to stay in one place for about a week - 10 days and use the car to get around both on and off the coast, so we need parking. My husband would rather NOT stay outside of one of the major towns in a quiet locale because he wants to be near things to do, i.e. not bored, which I think means a place that's amenable to nighttime strolls. I've read so many blogs and threads that I have a headache. I get that Malaga may be too busy/urban, maybe Marbella is too stuffy for toddlers, maybe Nerja is too far off and overrated, but I'm still unclear about my other options. Where do the kids go?