I am trying to decide between Sooke Harbor House, which I was going to splurge because it is one of those places identified as a place to go before you die. But recent reviews have me second guessing whether I want to spend the money. Sooke Harbor Resort and Marina looks very nice for the rate and then there is Ocean Wilderness Inn which is more the B&B experience up the road from Sooke. I am traveling with my husband and 11 year old daughter. We are outdoors beachcombing, birder people. Any feedback?