We are going to Cancun in Nov I have gone once before and stayed at the Oasis hotel. I would like to stay at a hotel that had fabulous food and atmosphere. Oasis food was uh not fabulous. Preferably a hotel that is somewhat on the adult side vs. the family side this is one of our first trips w/o kids. We are somewhat price conscious but will pay more to get what we want. We are in our late 20's so we still like to party but not with all college kids. Been there done that. I would also would like to know of the best excursions and the can't miss activities while in Cancun. Help!