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My, my, my

Busy little fingers:

"In fact, they don't mind letting you know when something is offensive to them. Give them credit and their dignity as being human beings and not being known as just poverty stricken slaves.

I guess I gotta pull rank on you again. But this note will also contain some useful info about the Maya.

I have been impressed by the Maya's reticence and unwillingness to criticize others. One reason for this is the small-village ethos and the knowledge that the "nail that stands up will be pounded down," (borrowing from the Japanese but they are a good comparison.0).

I can't count the times I have seen people come into a Maya town or gathering and run roughshod over them. My "American" sense was, of course, to intervene and shake things up. But my professional sense told me to shut up and let the Maya (3,000 year-old society) handle things.

Now, leaving the transitory hurt aside that they suffered being dissed, the Maya almost ALWAYS prevailed in the long run. They simply did it quietly and let time turn the issue to their favor.

When we have a few drinks they laugh about the Western world and remind me it will be gone long before they are.

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any other hobbies?

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Sorry, but you just gotta help that kid learn the language:

"......your point is mute!"

The term is "moot." It is often misused, as you did. It means, "subject to discussion."

I am doing child-care too. We adopted my granddaughter 5 years ago and she and I were in our study village for two weeks in June.

It is 5 hours from Cancun, in the middle of the forest, desperately poor, and marvelous in so many respects.

Now she knows a few things. She knows what it is to be around people who are ALL quiet, kind, and unfailingly generous.

Of course, she saw nothing of Cancun (although we flew there for the cheap airfare) and she never will.

I chat with many, many great people on this Forum about the Yucatan and it would be nice to meet up with them. But I won't subject my kid to boobs. Hee Hee

Sometimes I just slay myself!

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Yea poppa, and did you noticed he took his photo off???


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hyphanted????? Get that man a suppository.