We've never been - are bringing our 8/9 year old boys on a cruise. We have some active tours planned on other islands, so i'd be fine with just cabbing it to an amazing beach and laying low - but what would you do? Should we do a tour? Take a boat to st. john (then we'd miss st. thomas :( or just go to a local beach and if so which one. Really torn here and could use advise. thanks all!