Not sure if this is the place to post this. And I apologize if this is a long post. My husband and I are planning our vacation for next May and are trying to decide on a location. Through reading all of the wonderful posts on this site we've narrowed it down to Turks & Caicos and Aruba. We were wondering if we could get advice from those of you who have been to both as to which island in your opinion would be better to visit. We are in our early 30's and our only musts are staying on the beach and golf for my husband. My husband really wanted a casino, but we know there isn't one in Providenciales. Also, we both do not like fish or seafood so please take that into consideration. We've never been to the caribbean and will probably never be able to go again so we'd really like to go some place nice. We really want a relaxing quiet vacation. We don't want a party place we aren't into to that. The resorts we are considering are The sands and The Palms (the Palms is at the very top of our budget) in Providenciales; In Aruba we are leaning towards the Radisson or the Marriott Ocean Suites. If anyone can suggest and other moderately price nice hotels on the beach with a pool and papalas for shade we'd really appreciate it. I'm sure i'll have more questions! ANY help we can get would be so greatly appreciated. We don't get to go on vacation without the kids very often so this will be a special vacation for us.