Grand Palladium vs Riu vs Hilton Rose Hall Montego Bay

I am planning a family vacation to Jamaica for mid January, 2018 and trying to decide between Grand Palladium, Riu and Hilton Rose Hall. There will be 5 adults and 2 toddlers.

I really like Grand Palladium except for the distance from the airport (40 min). Would rather minimize the drive time with two two-year-olds. Riu and Hilton Rose Hall are closer to the airport but seem much smaller and not as many pools / dining options. Is that true? On the other hand, is GP too big? Thank you for any insight anyone can provide.