Okay - I am so confused. I've never been to the Dominican. Don't like to fly at all - but suck it up for 3 or 4 hour trips. Is it worth the 7 hours and connecting flights? And - we are leaning toward Paradisus Palma Real, but my husband and I are looking for romance with some fun nightlife and great food. Is Secrets a beter choice? Luxury and superior food are high on our list.