I want to take my daughter away for 4 nights in September for her bday. My husband, her daddy died in August of cancer and it has been a tough year. We love more "custom" and authentic places... We don't like large crowds. We go to Caneel Bay on St John every year so that might give you an idea of what we like. We love to hike and snorkel and be in the shade but by the water. Any direction would be good. Not interested in a hotel with more than like 200 rooms... etc.