we have been invited to a wedding on 6/2 at the divi aruba. it's the wedding of a great young man (who grew up with our children - aged 22 and 25)) and his fiance. we are also looking at this as a family vacation because it's hard to get time together anymore with our schedules. to be honest the divi doesn't look to be that nice. we usually don't stay in 2-3 star resorts (seen various ratings) but i'm reading that it's a great beach. we plan on staying approx 4 or 5 nights and are paying for the kids as well. we are looking for all inclusive because well we do like to party when on vacation and our kids are of legal age so it can get expensive for drinks and dinners and such. while we will dine outside of the resort for the local flair we like the convenience of only needing tip money most of the time (we feel too guilty if the service is there not tipping). any suggestions or comments???? not sure how many of the kids friends will also be attending because aruba is expensive but want to make the most of our trip.