We are trying to find the best resorts to go on vacation where we might find other "mature" single people also on vacation (if that's even a possibility in Aruba). We don't want an "older crowd", but we also don't want young kids partying like crazy. We're not expecting a resort to be all singles ... we'd expect there to be SOME couples there also. But we want to try to find resorts that tend to attract single people. Suggestions?