So, my older cousins want to take us to the Caribbean for a holiday and they are on the snooty side. I would choose Bermuda but it is too cold in February. I heard that Antigua may fit the bill. Where would you suggest I reserve a room at a hotel which is not outrageously expensive (no marble envelpoed four seasons spa type place), dressy in the evening, tranquil but with a nice bar, no kids under 12, and with a nice beach? Is there even anything in Antigua which would comply? They do like Harbour Island in the Bahamas which is up there alley with a Nantucket/ Caribbean feel but I want to go somewhere else perhaps.