I'm overwhelmed and don't know where to start. We're in our mid 40's and don't like huge crowds. We'd like some place relaxing with some options for activities, but aren't into wild night life or organized play. We'd probably be traveling in May June next year. We're thinking of going to an all-inclusive, but wouldn't want to stay at a place that is too crowded or huge. Looking for nice beaches. Interested in hikes or historical sites. Not interested in shopping, except maybe local markets.