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Shou Sugi Ban House

337 Montauk Hwy, Water Mill, Southampton, NY 11976-2639
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#3 of 3 B&Bs / Inns in Water Mill
Location
1.5
Cleanliness
4.7
Service
3.4
Value
2.8
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A thirteen-room destination spa and retreat that embodies global wellness and healing-arts practices for our guests in pursuit of integrative wellness, featuring holistic living, nutrition, education, fitness, meditation, advanced skin care, therapeutic bodywork, artful massage and hydrotherapy. The only comprehensive wellness program in the Hamptons, Shou Sugi Ban House is located on more than three acres, just 90 miles outside of New York City.
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Property amenities
Free parking
Free internet
Pool
Fitness Center with Gym / Workout Room
Free breakfast
Beach
Boating
Free shuttle or taxi services
Electric vehicle charging station
Wifi
Hot tub
Pool / beach towels
Adult pool
Outdoor pool
Heated pool
Private pool
Saltwater pool
Plunge pool
Fence around pool
Yoga classes
Yoga room
Fitness / spa locker rooms
Fitness classes
Personal trainer
Sauna
Restaurant
Breakfast available
Breakfast buffet
Breakfast in the room
Complimentary tea
Complimentary welcome drink
Outdoor dining area
Snack bar
Special diet menus
Wine / champagne
Golf course
Shuttle bus service
Business Center with Internet Access
Conference facilities
Meeting rooms
Photo copier / fax In business center
Spa
Body wrap
Couples massage
Facial treatments
Foot massage
Full body massage
Hand massage
Head massage
Light therapy
Massage
Neck massage
Open-air bath
Steam room
Adults only
Rooftop terrace
24-hour security
Baggage storage
Concierge
Gift shop
Non-smoking hotel
Outdoor fireplace
Outdoor furniture
Shared lounge / TV area
Shops
Sun deck
Sun loungers / beach chairs
Sun terrace
Sun umbrellas
First aid kit
Umbrella
24-hour check-in
24-hour front desk
Express check-in / check-out
Private check-in / check-out
Laundry service
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Room features
Allergy-free room
Air purifier
Air conditioning
Dining area
Fireplace
Housekeeping
Coffee / tea maker
Walk-in shower
Bathrobes
Safe
Wardrobe / closet
Clothes rack
Laptop safe
Private bathrooms
Tile / marble floor
Electric kettle
Whirlpool bathtub
Bath / shower
Complimentary toiletries
Hair dryer
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Room types
Pool view
Non-smoking rooms
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HOTEL STYLE
Quaint
Languages Spoken
English, Spanish
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  • Lauren P
    New York City, New York3 contributions
    Upscale with flaws
    Day visit for lunch and spa treatments in a beautiful setting with a minimalist vibe. Lunch held outdoors in the Cherry Grove on a giant bluestone/slate table . The menu was fixed, chef's choice, just choose your protein. The vegan dish was delicious. The seafood dish was a generous portion, but oddly just seafood in broth, no accompaniments like pasta or rice .They did bring bread when we could find the waiters, who delivered the food with a flourish, but weren't seen again till they picked up the plates. The facilities - sauna, steam , hot tubs, were pristine and spa treatments were as expected. They were missing simple amenities though: "out of shower caps", no bags for wet bathing suits. We were offered snacks post treatment but then told "they were out of them". Little shot glasses of 'elixirs' were also offered after our massages. I assume they were good for us, but some tasted horrible. Little cards listing the ingredients and health benefits would have been helpful. All in all a relaxing experience, but the devil is in the details. Addressing them would go a long way to elevate the experience and make Shou Sugi Ban House the luxury experience it purports to be.
    Date of stay: September 2022
    Written September 18, 2022
  • Tettum
    1 contribution
    On second thought
    My partner and I are considering retreating at this exquisite location but after speaking with guest service agent, Hannah, and now reading some of the comments, we are now having second thoughts. I did NOT get a warm or welcoming phone experience from Hannah after inquiring about booking a reservation. The energy over the phone felt a lot like what I've just read in the comments below -- pretentious, uncultured + uninfectious to what is exemplified on their site, and just flat out lifeless. It was as if I had been a bother for calling to inquire about booking a reservation. Considering the time, energy, (and not to mention the money) that is acquired to have an intentional retreat experience, unfortunately this place may not be it. We are now exploring to retreat elsewhere. What a shame. It appears as tho this establishment is in need of internal restructuring from a complete wholistic perspective. Adopting culture authenticity as opposed to what appears to be culture appropriation.
    Date of stay: January 2021
    Traveled as a couple
    Written January 25, 2021
  • Alain B
    34 contributions
    Beautiful design, well-crafted overall experience, but overvalued especially the meals
    SSBH is a beautifully designed place, every detail, in the gardens, in the studios, in the communal spaces, are well-thought. Materials, perspectives, everything is zen and peaceful - except the noise of the train, which is just behind, but we can live with it. Service from staff is excellent. Spa is top notch. Our disappointment came from the dinner, which should have been exceptional, which is priced to be so ($125), and which has not been. We chose omakase style , and when we got to the table, dinner was served, simple dishes with no explanation, no one to story-tell... what we saw what beet, cabbage, potatoes and fish, that was good, for sure, but lacked special interest for us. Apparently, we missed the point of the "hyper-seasonal" experience, and the fact that Covid-19 protocols prevented staff to serve us (really ?), but the bottom line is we got the price and totally missed the value. Same for the simple rice bowl we had for lunch, priced at $50. We live in NYC, work in the luxury field, with some sensitivity around "money-can't-buy experience", and have lived in Japan before, so we think we know what a $50 rice bowl could look like (though we've ever had..), and we were sad not see that. And then room rates, at $1,500 / night, you expect true exception. Too bad for us, I'm sure they will correct that, and surely, unlike us, future guests will live the best experience possible. It's still a new place. We all need zen in our life and Shou Sugi is designed for that.
    Date of stay: August 2020
    Written September 1, 2020
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susan s wrote a review Aug 2023
Brooklyn, New York6 contributions
Absolutely the best experience I have had in the Hamptons. It’s a secluded oasis of peace and tranquility. The food was beyond the best I have ever eaten on Long Island. The spa experiences were simply amazing.
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Date of stay: August 2023Trip type: Traveled as a couple
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Lauren P wrote a review Sep 2022
New York City, New York3 contributions3 helpful votes
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Day visit for lunch and spa treatments in a beautiful setting with a minimalist vibe. Lunch held outdoors in the Cherry Grove on a giant bluestone/slate table . The menu was fixed, chef's choice, just choose your protein. The vegan dish was delicious. The seafood dish was a generous portion, but oddly just seafood in broth, no accompaniments like pasta or rice .They did bring bread when we could find the waiters, who delivered the food with a flourish, but weren't seen again till they picked up the plates. The facilities - sauna, steam , hot tubs, were pristine and spa treatments were as expected. They were missing simple amenities though: "out of shower caps", no bags for wet bathing suits. We were offered snacks post treatment but then told "they were out of them". Little shot glasses of 'elixirs' were also offered after our massages. I assume they were good for us, but some tasted horrible. Little cards listing the ingredients and health benefits would have been helpful. All in all a relaxing experience, but the devil is in the details. Addressing them would go a long way to elevate the experience and make Shou Sugi Ban House the luxury experience it purports to be.
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Date of stay: September 2022
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Malissa Y wrote a review Apr 2023
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Very pricey for lousy customer service. After our massages and before our dinner I suffered a cold shower. No one was able to fix it within 3 hours, I shivered through a very expensive meal, and the only compensation for our trouble despite our flat out asking if they would be doing anything to acknowledge it was a thanks for being so cool about that. The owner sat one table away and had to be aware. Sad a place charging these rates doesn’t value its customers. Also, if you want a real zen experience… I would go upstate for some authenticity.
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Date of stay: July 2022
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Response from Shou Sugi Ban House LLC, Accounting / Finance at Shou Sugi Ban House
Responded Jun 10, 2023
Please allow us to begin by sincerely apologizing for the complete lack of response up until this point. There are no excuses for not getting back to you but there are reasons on our end, that are our issue. With this being said, we genuinely apologize for both the lack of action to be able to fix your shower issue and provide a proper guest recovery. We certainly hope that at the very least, the massages and the dinner were of high quality. We would like to go ahead and invite you back, and would ask that if you are willing to give us a second chance to reach out to our new General Manager, Chris Pulito. Please call the property and provide them with the best way to get ahold of you. It is our full intent to make this right and to repair any damages that were done by providing the worst customer service.
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Dana F wrote a review Jan 2023
Northampton, Massachusetts1 contribution
My stay at Shou Sugi Ban House last weekend was outstanding. The facilities are beautiful, the property is so magical and cozy in the wintertime with fireplaces everywhere and gorgeous bathtubs with herbal salt soaks in the rooms. I had the best facial in my life, and my husband and I couldn’t believe how good the food was. The staff was warm, attentive and accommodating and we left feeling completely renewed. We look forward to trying more Healing Arts services next time we come back! Highly reccomend.
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Date of stay: January 2023Trip type: Traveled as a couple
Room Tip: If leaving NYC- best to leave by 1pm to avoid Rush Hour traffic on Fridays
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Response from Shou Sugi Ban House LLC, Accounting / Finance at Shou Sugi Ban House
Responded Jun 14, 2023
Thank you for your five star review! We’re so glad that you enjoyed your spa and healing arts services and that your time spent with us was restorative. We hope to welcome you back soon. The Team at Shou Sugi Ban House
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Vincent wrote a review Oct 2022
New York City, New York2 contributions2 helpful votes
We've been lucky to stay at some incredible hotels throughout the world and this wasn't one of them. No amount of meditation here can help you drown out the sounds of planes, trains and automobiles. Why have me fill out extensive paperwork regarding my food allergies if you’re going to serve me them for breakfast?
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Date of stay: September 2022Trip type: Traveled as a couple
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Rachel M wrote a review Sep 2022
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Luxury prices without the luxury experience. If anything, this resort was on lists last year due to aesthetics alone. My spouse and I have had the fortune to travel to some of the best resorts in the world and this sadly was not amongst them. We were excited to see an onsen-style wellness retreat pop-up only a few hours from the city. Having a high-risk pregnancy, there were few options for a babymoon that seemed COVID-safe and this looked like the perfect fit and we were willing to splurge given we weren't traveling far. We booked several months prior to our visit and were asked to fill out an extensive registration survey where we were asked a lot of details about allergies, restrictions, and our goals for the time that we were there. None of this information was followed up on. A few things that we would have expected for ~1500/night: + Tell us that the spa was going to be closed BEFORE we arrive: The Spa, and about 90% of the treatments, was closed for two of the three days of our stay. Given that this is a significant portion of the experience, I would have expected that we have either a reduced rate or prior notice, especially given how far in advance we booked. + Attention to allergies: My spouse has two small but severe food allergies and was actively served dishes he is allergic to by staff. Luckily these were easily separated, but it makes it easy to question cross-contamination. + Attention to restrictions: We picked Sugi Ban House because of its COVID cautions and, as I said in the survey, I have a high risk pregnancy. Their indoor mask policy changed since booking for guests and staff and I had to continually ask staff if certain things were pregnancy safe (i.e Herbal Teas served with meals, Herbal Bath soaks, mushroom blends) + Outreach prior to check-in beyond the survey: For a place that is offering personalized, holistic retreats no one reached out with dining options, agenda options, etc. After this survey. We had to initiate all of this and spent multiple days playing phone-tag with the front desk to answer basic questions. + Check-in Process: There was no one to greet us when we checked in or to guide us through the process. Someone took our bags but didn't direct us to our rooms. The property is a bit confusing so it is hard to understand where to go and it was alarming to have our bags taken immediately. + Ambient Noise: What is not pictured is that the property is fronted by a busy highway and backed by a rail line. Expect pre-dawn and late night rumblings. This is a beautiful property that gives the illusion of seclusion without the realities of it. + Extremely inconsistent communication: While I love that they offer to text you to manage your stay while you are there, we just saw very inconsistent behaviors versus follow through. Small details like being asked to leave trays of food outside but then not having them picked up for a full day. Overall - an incredibly disorganized, disappointing, and underwhelming experience. I will caveat I do not like to typically write reviews like this but here was the final straw: my spouse also wrote a review last week where the owner of this page said they would follow up. They did not. The only communication we received was a follow up of the final bill with the additional charges. We had multiple couples reach out expressing interest in our stay and stating they'd want to go (who wouldn't? the photos are beautiful) but we have actively advised them against booking.
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Date of stay: September 2022
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Judybaum wrote a review Sep 2022
Long Island, New York16 contributions20 helpful votes
My husband and I were going to a wedding in water mill and decided to make a weekend out of it by staying at Shou Sugi in the Inn portion because we’d be visiting friends and didn’t have time to use the spa. We were in room #3–a suite. Here are the negatives: The tiles on bathroom floor were cracked The TV had wires hanging down and was connected to a very finicky Apple TV. No instructions were provided and it took a while to figure it out each time we turned it on The shower head sprayed into the bathroom. The room was close to Montauk Highway, with constant car and truck noise all night. We could’ve stayed on the Long Island Expressway and gotten the same “ambiance.” The towels were barely absorbent. We could hear conversations between the people staying in the room below us The positives: The grounds are beautiful The staff is lovely The pool is small but nice And here’s the REAL negative—the price! $3300 for 2 nights!! A small buffet breakfast was included, but nothing in the room except 2 (very good) pieces of chocolate and 2 apples. No room service was available
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Date of stay: September 2022
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BestOfTravel wrote a review Aug 2021
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We arrived at Shou Sugi hopeful to have a beautiful weekend away from our kids. Unfortunately, it did not meet our expectations or the hefty price tag and we decided not to even stay the night. Upon our arrival, we asked to order lunch. We were told that lunch is only available if ordered the day before (and there were only 3 people having lunch total). The only food available was a "rice bowl" - chicken, salmon or mushroom. My husband ordered chicken and mushroom but was told that isn't possible as there is not enough produce to "combine" options. After we ordered the bowls, they took 45 minutes to arrive. Then, when we we arrived at our room, we discovered that (1) it was not private as all the rooms are extremely close to each other, (2) it was tiny and (3) the outdoor space was shared walk ways. On our way to our room, we were escorted -- with our shoes on -- directly through the yoga studio. We found it pretty disgusting that people walked through a part of the spa with shoes. Finally, we learned that to use the "hydrotherapy" section of the spa aka the sauna is an additional $250 charge per use. Saunas are standard for spas to include in their offering, not services that are charged for. Overall, the space is pretty but not worth the price tag at all unfortunately. We never write reviews, but I thought this was important to share.
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Date of stay: August 2021
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Tettum wrote a review Jan 2021
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My partner and I are considering retreating at this exquisite location but after speaking with guest service agent, Hannah, and now reading some of the comments, we are now having second thoughts. I did NOT get a warm or welcoming phone experience from Hannah after inquiring about booking a reservation. The energy over the phone felt a lot like what I've just read in the comments below -- pretentious, uncultured + uninfectious to what is exemplified on their site, and just flat out lifeless. It was as if I had been a bother for calling to inquire about booking a reservation. Considering the time, energy, (and not to mention the money) that is acquired to have an intentional retreat experience, unfortunately this place may not be it. We are now exploring to retreat elsewhere. What a shame. It appears as tho this establishment is in need of internal restructuring from a complete wholistic perspective. Adopting culture authenticity as opposed to what appears to be culture appropriation.
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Date of stay: January 2021Trip type: Traveled as a couple
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Alain B wrote a review Sep 2020
34 contributions13 helpful votes
SSBH is a beautifully designed place, every detail, in the gardens, in the studios, in the communal spaces, are well-thought. Materials, perspectives, everything is zen and peaceful - except the noise of the train, which is just behind, but we can live with it. Service from staff is excellent. Spa is top notch. Our disappointment came from the dinner, which should have been exceptional, which is priced to be so ($125), and which has not been. We chose omakase style , and when we got to the table, dinner was served, simple dishes with no explanation, no one to story-tell... what we saw what beet, cabbage, potatoes and fish, that was good, for sure, but lacked special interest for us. Apparently, we missed the point of the "hyper-seasonal" experience, and the fact that Covid-19 protocols prevented staff to serve us (really ?), but the bottom line is we got the price and totally missed the value. Same for the simple rice bowl we had for lunch, priced at $50. We live in NYC, work in the luxury field, with some sensitivity around "money-can't-buy experience", and have lived in Japan before, so we think we know what a $50 rice bowl could look like (though we've ever had..), and we were sad not see that. And then room rates, at $1,500 / night, you expect true exception. Too bad for us, I'm sure they will correct that, and surely, unlike us, future guests will live the best experience possible. It's still a new place. We all need zen in our life and Shou Sugi is designed for that.
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Date of stay: August 2020
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Frequently Asked Questions about Shou Sugi Ban House
Which popular attractions are close to Shou Sugi Ban House?
Nearby attractions include Cooper's Beach (3.6 miles), Parrish Art Museum (0.09 miles), and Children's Museum of The East End (5.0 miles).
What are some of the property amenities at Shou Sugi Ban House?
Some of the more popular amenities offered include free breakfast, a pool, and an on-site restaurant.
Which room amenities are available at Shou Sugi Ban House?
Top room amenities include air conditioning, a dining area, and a fireplace.
What food & drink options are available at Shou Sugi Ban House?
Guests can enjoy free breakfast, an on-site restaurant, and complimentary tea during their stay.
Is parking available at Shou Sugi Ban House?
Yes, free parking is available to guests.
What are some restaurants close to Shou Sugi Ban House?
Conveniently located restaurants include Tate's Bake Shop, Plaza Cafe, and La Parmigiana Italian Restaurant.
Are there opportunities to exercise at Shou Sugi Ban House?
Yes, guests have access to a pool, a fitness center, and a sauna during their stay.
Does Shou Sugi Ban House have an airport shuttle?
Yes, Shou Sugi Ban House offers an airport shuttle for guests. We recommend calling ahead to confirm details.
Is Shou Sugi Ban House located near the city center?
Yes, it is 0.6 miles away from the center of Water Mill.
Does Shou Sugi Ban House offer any business services?
Yes, it conveniently offers a business center, meeting rooms, and conference facilities.
Which languages are spoken by the staff at Shou Sugi Ban House?
The staff speaks multiple languages, including English and Spanish.