I don't think there is public transport perhaps you could contact the museum direct and ask?
Not sure. I don’t know if it is possible. Call the museum directly.
I'm not sure that's very easy. We lack good public transportation in upstate New York, and Bethel is in the middle of nowhere. I would check Coach and Covered Wagon Tours ... but you'd probably have to fly into Poughkeepsie ... And maybe they would have tours from there, but not likely. Or Sullivan County International Airport in Monticello and then a taxi.
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