I was taking live virtual tours with Adam Marot, who works for Behind Budapest and is an independent contractor of a very disrespectful platform named Virtualtrips Limited (company number 12623120) or HeyGo. They are not private tours, but the guide is responsible for the content and discipline of the tours.
I was very happy with Adam's tours because he is a great photographer, and his tours were very educative. I participated in many of his Jewish Legacy tours beginning in February 7th and in every one I learned different information about Judaism in Hungary.
But something very unusual began to happen in the Judaism tours when a person from Amsterdam, working for a tour guide of that city, began to do the ad of Adam's Jewish Legacy tour for HeyGo in May. The promos began to have happy faces, sarcastic comments, and jokes. Accordingly with the tone of the ads, people participating in Adam's tours began to have a conduct that is not compatible with these kind of tours. That person from Amsterdam seemed to have a big influence on Adam because she entered in many of his tours to boycott them with the approval of the guide.
On July 10th, she entered in his Jewish legacy tour to disrupt it, asking questions via chat about drinking since the beginning of the session. Other travellers, some of them "helpers" of HeyGo were writing in the chat that they wanted to have fun. I was surprised because I didn't remember that situation in these kind of respectful tours, but Adam was not able to maintain the discipline and surprisingly, he read some of the questions of that person that were completely out of topic and even addressed to him (for example, "I just assumed that you were an early drinker" wrote that person). Also that person used to write comments in the chat attacking my religious beliefs and reputation. (Previously I had blocked her from FB because of her behaviour that I reported to HeyGo several times but they seemed to support her). I wrote in the chat that I was interested in the tour while Adam lost the story thread. He didn't complain with the platform. Thereafter, I was attacked in the FB private group. My review referring the issues was deleted violating my freedom of speech. This situation was very stressful for me. Also, I had invited some relatives and a friend to that tour, but fortunately, they couldn't attend.
I also noticed that in the last tour about Pest highlights, including the memorials in Liberty Square, Adam began to dedicate more time to an interactive fountain omitting information about the Memorial dedicated to the Hungarian victims of the Holocaust, and the counter memorial. When I began to tour with Adam, he used to dedicate time to debate about the memorials and it was very interesting. I remember that the mentioned person from Amsterdam entered in that tour at that time to write in the chat referring to the memorial as "the hideous monument in the background spoils the vibe though"
Unexpectedly, days after that tour, Adam Marot posted a comment in the private FB group violating all the rules of the group ( "Be kind and courteous, create a welcoming environment and treat everyone with dignity and respect") changing all the facts accusing me to disrupt his tours. Of course that the post was backed up for the Admin of the HeyGo company and the real provokers.
As a consequence of Adam's defamation I received several threats from different travellers who believed in his false story, and I lost virtual friends who were afraid of the situation and eliminated me as a friend. I moved to other platforms that are very respectful, but I had to change my identity because there are travellers who also participate in different platforms.
I have noticed that the ads in the private virtual tours in the website of Behind Budapest and Virtual Walking tours Budapest are respectful so I don't understand why the guide has two different ads for the same tour, one for his private company and other for HeyGo. Both tours last one hour and are similar. I can't afford a virtual private tour because it costs $85.00, but I am curious about having different behaviours or a double standard on a sensitive topic by the same guide.
I wrote an email to Behind Budapest asking for an explanation of the behaviour of the guide and the corresponding apologies, but I haven't had an answer yet.