We had a pleasant 1 night stay at the Petit Ermitage en route from San Diego back to NorCal. We were expecting the staff to be overly pretentious and were pleasantly surprised by the overall good-natured, friendly, welcoming personalities from the valet to the restaurant staff. It's a fairly small place, and the staff remember who you are (even for though we were only staying for 1 night).
Now, we were travelling with a 2 year-old and despite the spacious rooms, the free crib, the good cheer, it just wasn't right for a child that age. The roof-top pool and restaurant are weather sensitive. The pool was not appropriate for a 2 year-old. The javanese teak furniture was attractive, but again not quite right for a small child. The neighborhood is full of adult friendly activities, but again not quite right for a toddler. We'd come back though if we were able to leave the child at home.