I took my wife here for a birthday weekend getaway. It was fantastic! A few tips for those who are considering the same:
Easy set-up: Rod arranged roses at arrival, birthday balloons for our second day, which allowed me to go down in the romantic "hall of fame" with my wife. He truly wants to help you shine.
Plenty to do: Try the Kenneth Volk vineyard, about 20 minutes away for a great tasting (and if you’re lucky, a behind the scenes tour). We found the “Full of Life Flatbread” restaurant as great food with no waiting for a table if you go after 8pm (earlier than that, you may have challenges)
Variety of rooms: You could make a tour of the 6 rooms, trying 1 for each getaway weekend. Paris and Pirates are on the top floor, nested among dormer windows; so if you have trouble climbing stairs or are over 6’2” tall, you may prefer the other rooms
Something to look forward to is the cast-away ship and tree house, both outside the mansion confines, in 2014!