Very friendly for military. Me and my girlfriend decided to visit the island and choose to go to the W retreat and spa. Any request that you had, they met... oh course with a price. But everything that was offered at the resort offered a military discount. I decided to choose the beach front room and could not ask for a better room, there were families their and we felt away from them because they were more concerned with the pool, not to mention they have an adult beach so if you wanted to get away you could do so. The pictures on the website do not justify the resort at all and you will not be disappointed. Also do not be afraid to venture out to the island, you will not be disappointed, and also try the local fresh seafood, of course they have places that will accommodate people who wish to have a hamburger on a tropical island. Black beard sports was very friendly and gave a very relaxed and informative tour, ask for Arnold he will look out for you and help you even after your tour is over. This retreat was one of the best I have been to. Spend the money and treat yourself and your partner. You will love it.