Hi
We are a family from Melbourne and have travelled the USA annually for the past five years
The first time we went with out two children 12 & 14 . We did east and west coast and on the west coast the places they/we all love the most where San Diego and San Francisco . Anaheim for Disney was good but I could do without it !!
My husband and I travel to the USA each year for some business and we always return to San Francisco if we have 3-4 days to spare its probably our favourite city
This April ( 9 days actually but who's counting ?!) we are returning and my now 17 year old daughter is comng for the first 10 days . She has been unwell for some time and this is a recovery trip . She had 11 days to choose the places she wanted to spend at ( she needs to return for vce studies ) and she chose
2 nights Anaheim ( obviously been before we feel this is sufficient for us but I think you could do it in 3 tops)
Drive to San Diego spend 3 nights ( lots to do with good culture beaches scenery and sea world and zoo )
Fly to San Francisco for 4 nights ( so much to do we coul spend a week )
Drive back to LA ( we are driving as wew have some stops to make and people to meet half way between LA and SF) spend 1 night two days
I think this is a great itinerary for a short trip . You don't want to be spending time sitting in airports and you need to stick to the west coast
If you are comfortable drivng and plan to drive any a great trip for you would be this BUT with the Big Sur road trip from SF to LA taking two nights with a stop in Monterey and then Cambria where you could do Hearst Castle ( amazing you would all love this ) and all the other wonderful places to stop at
Good luck planning . Have you already purchased your flights ? If not do your research and decide where you want to visit as it may prove to be better for you to arrive in LA but depart from SF . If you don't want to do the coastal drive down the big sur I would consider doing the LA/Anaheim/San Diego first , fly to SF spend your last remaining nights there and fly home from SF ? With 2 weeks there is no point back tracking just to get to an airport to fly home when it could be done from either airport . Just something to consider