Hi, My husband and I are thinking about coming to California during Thanksgiving. I'm trying to decide which would be better to stay at? Sonoma or Napa. We are in our 30's, like to have fun-not too too crazy though. We love wine tastings & like everything from laid back to fancy atmospheres (depending on our moods). It would be our first time coming & do not know the area. I've heard there are bus tours to the wineries, which we would like instead of renting a car. (safe, because we plan on drinking). I would appreciate any guidance or suggestions. Thank you !