Good day to all. After perusing the web and examining a map, I wanted to reach out to someone that could give my family real life experience. With that said, I will be transferring to a job in Downtown LA and my husband in San Diego. Based on the traffic nightmare I keep reading about I am hoping that someone out there can give me some advice on how our family my make this opportunity work. Side note...I have an 18 year old son that will need to continue his college education so proximity to a university or community college until we acclimate is also paramount. In a nutshell, what city(ies) would be our best options between San Diego and LA and what road/interstate routes would be recommended. Thank you in advance for your much needed input!