My wife and I are spending 3 days in La Jolla for a wedding in October. The wedding is downtown at La Valencia, but we want to stay somewhere that is more of a full service vacation-type resort. We think we narrowed it down to these two places but we're not sure if Torrey Pines is worth the additional $$$. It's our first time in La Jolla and we're not sure when/if we'll get a chance to come back, so we're willing to spend if it's worth it. Pool,gym,spa is important to us. Any insight is appreciated!