I don't think this has been asked/answered before, but apologies if it has..
For the beach BBQ dinners (either kind), can each person choose a different menu, e.g. Meat for one person, Seafood for the other? It's just not clear from the info I've seen, which just says something like 'you have a choice of two menus'. I'd been disappointed if we both had to choose from the same menu.