Maybe defensive is the wrong word. it's more that some people on the forums get a bit exasperated with everyone posting itineraries all the time.
Thinking mid-May (2014)
Ghost walks - I'm a massive wuss. Though I would be with my partner. I will look into them thank you.
Events - The dates will be planned around the entire 3 month trip so not sure about the events - though if they are common like you say I will definitely keep an eye out. I will make a list of other comedy places - thank you.
Dark at 11pm? Wow. I suppose it is quite far north. Awesome that does give me more time to work with!
I will have to check glimerton cove- thought they did evening things. May have to swap the arthurs seat and that around.
I will take note of your crown jewels recommendation :)
I'm a bit tentative about the Hairy Coo tour (or similar ones) as it does take a whole day. Though with our short time frame and lack of car it would be an easier way to see some of the country side of Scotland. Not too worried about the technical highland stuff - more to get out of the city. Yeah I will be tipping. Though I probably will be a scrooge still :S
Thank you all VERY VERY much for your recommendations.:):):)