PS - We're all early to mid-30's so we're not looking for a drunk-fest, but just a place that we can relax during the day and party with like-minded adults into the morning.

I would suggest that you strongly consider St.Martin or Antigua for your trip. Both islands have hiking, snorkling and night life. I would maybe lean towards St. Martin although there are not too many all inclusives there. I find that typically the food at all inclusives is not as good as we experience in nice restaurant in the States. Cocobay in Antigua is an exception but that is really a couples resort. Maybe check out St. James ,a larger resort where there may be more action.

St. Martin has a lot to do and many fun beaches to explore, you also have the option of taking the ferry to Anguilla or St. Barts. Check out La Plantation or another hotel in Orient Bay. This would give you the option of hanging out at the beach for a few days, there are many restaurants within walking distance and then you could rent a car and explore the island. Have fun! Please let us know what you decide and why.

I don't know if I'd recommend Antigua for nightlife. The AI resort I go to there is VERY quiet, but that's what I like. The quality of the nightlife may be highly dependent on the resort you're at--some are livelier than others--and your proximity to other resorts, bars, etc.

My sister and I are looking for something very similar. Have you been on your trip yet? Did you find somewhere you liked?

We were looking at Antigua or maybe Virgin Gorda/Tortola. Any suggestions would be appreciated.