cincyandy, first let us congratulate you on your upcoming nuptials!
We have become regulars at Secrets having been three times previously with out next trip scheduled for May.
The "nightlife" at Secrets is geared more towards the middle 30's and up crowd. Several "shows/activities" on the beach during the week, a dance type show once a week and if I remember correct a karoke night in the bar/club downstairs. There was also a "casino" night one night where you are givenplay money and then youtake your winnings and bid on items Secrets has provided. This has included gift certificates for the spa and other nice items. Now, if you're looking to "party" afraid you will be a little disappointed inthis category. Secrets is more of the rest and total relxation with the pampering that goes with it.
And, in this category you will no other resort in the area that can match Secrets.
PDC is about ten minutes away by taxi ($12.00 one way) and the taxis are very plentiful. There are some "party spots" in PDC, ie Senor Frogs....
If you "click" on our handle you can see other posts we have placed here nad they should cover and questions/concerns you may have with Secrets.
Really do believe you'll enjoy Secrets for what they have to offer!
Sorry for being long winded and again Congrats!