Greetings J. ,
I hope you are keeping well. I want to pass on my prayers and condolences to you, your friend and their entire family. There is little worse in this world that I can imagine than "burying one's child".
Please take some time for YOURSELF though, after you've finished with your "duties" of cooking and whatnot.
I wish you inner peace and warmth through this sad time.
God bless you.